Just for Today, Try a Little Non-Judgment
All the while, images of the Harley Davidson bar in Pee Wee's Big Adventure are going through my head - this man looks like he could be the bouncer for the toughest, most frightening biker bar out there.
Suddenly, his grizzled appearance goes into a smile, and he says, "No worries, little lady," in a style so reminiscent of John Wayne that I look a bit harder to see if this isn't a John Wayne sighting in Jacksonville, Florida (for all you conspiracy buffs out there, sorry, no go).
He and I part ways, and as I glance back, I watch him carefully picking out a sundress for a child - perhaps a grand-daughter? I smile at the obvious tenderness of this big, burly, scary-looking man.
3 Big Relationship Mistakes - And How to Stop Making Them & Find Your Soulmate (Part 3)
3 Big Relationship Mistakes - And How to Stop Making Them & Find Your Soulmate (Part 2)
It may be very romantic to think that you are going to be the knight in shining armor or the, well, warrior princess, but in reality it is exhausting, stressful, and causes resentment.
3 Big Relationship Mistakes - And How to Stop Making Them & Find Your Soulmate (Part 1)
Then it dawned on me - there had to be something I was doing that caused me to attract the exact same kind of relationship again and again! Stressed and sick of dealing with this again, I swore off men for months, intent on fixing whatever it was that was wrong with me, and I found out that I had been addicted to making some critical mistakes in picking boyfriends - mistakes that I realized I was programmed to make, based on some unconscious beliefs I held about the kinds of relationships I deserved.
When I worked on changing these patterns, I quickly and easily found my soulmate (and now husband of more than 11 years).