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Finding Your Soulmate

Why You SHOULD Hold Out for Your Soulmate & A "Finding Your Soulmate" Meditation

Why You SHOULD Hold Out for Your Soulmate & A "Finding Your Soulmate" Meditation

My husband and I celebrated our 14 year anniversary in November. It was, of course, a happy occasion - especially in the age of divorce when many relationships don't last this long. It was also a time of reflection, as I pondered where the time had gone, how lucky I was to have such a wonderful husband, and how I actually loved him more now than I even did on the day we got married. 

All that pondering called up one really important question: 

How did that one decision to marry him - “Mr. Soulmate” - instead of “Mr. Almost Right” or “Mr. Really, Really Wrong,” change my life? 

The answer? 

3 Big Relationship Mistakes - And How to Stop Making Them & Find Your Soulmate (Part 3)

Listen, life is incredibly short. At the end of your life, are you going to look back and be happy with yourself because you stayed with a person that makes you miserable because you wanted things? Or are you going to wish that you had chosen a person that unconditionally supported and loved you?

3 Big Relationship Mistakes - And How to Stop Making Them & Find Your Soulmate (Part 2)

It may be very romantic to think that you are going to be the knight in shining armor or the, well, warrior princess, but in reality it is exhausting, stressful, and causes resentment. 

3 Big Relationship Mistakes - And How to Stop Making Them & Find Your Soulmate (Part 1)

Then it dawned on me - there had to be something I was doing that caused me to attract the exact same kind of relationship again and again! Stressed and sick of dealing with this again, I swore off men for months, intent on fixing whatever it was that was wrong with me, and I found out that I had been addicted to making some critical mistakes in picking boyfriends - mistakes that I realized I was programmed to make, based on some unconscious beliefs I held about the kinds of relationships I deserved.  

When I worked on changing these patterns, I quickly and easily found my soulmate (and now husband of more than 11 years).