Big Mistake #3: Picking a mate based only on looks or other material things.
This was never really an issue for me - as I said before, I tended to look to the heart of the person - but I have a lot of people who come to me for relationship help that tell me that they picked the person because of their looks, money, big house, fast car, etc.
Guess what? In the long run, these things do not create a foundation for a truly fulfilling, unconditionally loving, soulmate relationship. In fact, with the people that I have worked with, they become sort of a “golden handcuffs” that ties the person to a relationship they are miserable in, simply because they are addicted to the lifestyle, the money, the social position, or whatever else it might be.
Listen, life is incredibly short. At the end of your life, are you going to look back and be happy with yourself because you stayed with a person that makes you miserable because you wanted things? Or are you going to wish that you had chosen a person that unconditionally supported and loved you?
Only you can answer that. What I can tell you is that a life lived with your soulmate - a person who matches you on every level - is almost indescribably wonderful.
You can find out more of my story and how you can break negative patterns and find your soulmate by watching the video below: